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008			030709s2003 miu 000 0 eng
020			_a0310221528
040			_aDLC _cUCULIB _dUCULIB
082	0	0	_a158.2 _222 _bCLO
100	1		_aCloud, Henry _918448
245	1	0	_aBoundaries Face to Face : _bhow to have that difficult conversation you've been avoiding / _cHenry Cloud and John Townsend.
260			_aGrand Rapids, Mich. : _bZondervan, _cc2003.
300			_a266 p. ; _c24 cm.
505	0		_aPart I. Why you need to have that difficult conversation -- The conversation can change your life -- The benefits of a good conversation -- Part II. The essentials of a good conversation -- Be emotionally present -- Be clear about "you" and "I" -- Clarify the problem -- Balance grace and truth -- Stay on task -- Use the formula, when you do "a," I feel "b" -- Affirm and validate -- Apologize for your part in the problem -- Avoid "shoulds" -- Be an agent for change -- Be specific -- Differentiate between forgiving and trusting -- Part III. Seeing how it's done -- Telling people what you want -- Making someone aware of something -- Stopping a behavior -- Dealing with counterattack and other problems -- Part IV. Getting ready to have the conversation -- Why you need to get ready -- How to get ready -- Part V. Having the conversation with people in your life -- With your spouse -- With someone you're dating -- With your kids -- With your parents -- With your adult children -- At work -- With people in authority.
650		0	_aConflict management _xReligious aspects _xChristianity. _918449
650		0	_aConversation _xReligious aspects _xChristianity. _918450
650		0	_aInterpersonal conflict _xReligious aspects _xChristianity. _918451
700	1		_aTownsend, John Sims, _d1952- _918452
942			_2ddc _cBKS _02
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